What's a realistic wedding attendance rate?
A widely used rule of thumb is that roughly 10–20% of invited guests won't attend a local wedding — so about 80–90% come. When more guests have to travel, that share climbs: a mixed local/out-of-town list often sees around 25% decline, and a true destination wedding can see 30–45% unable to make it.
The estimator above adjusts for this with a simple "who's on your list?" setting. Treat the result as a planning range, not a guarantee — your actual number depends on the season, day of week, distance, and how much notice you give.
From estimate to real numbers
Once your save-the-dates go out, switch from estimating to tracking. In your free dashboard you can build a guest list where each row turns green when someone says yes and red when they decline, with live headcounts that flow into your budget and seating chart. Here's how to track wedding RSVPs, or just open the guest tracker.
Planning the budget too? Use the free wedding budget calculator — it can estimate your total from your guest count.